March 11, 2018

What is a reverse harem romance?

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reverse harem anime

reverse harem anime

My latest book, The Castle of Earth and Embers, releases this week. I’m super excited about it, because it’s the first book in a new series and also because it explores a brand new subgenre for me – reverse harem.

I discovered reverse harem as a reader about a year ago. I’d been hearing the phrase pop up in writing conversations for a few months, but I wasn’t that interested until a writer friend raved about the Rock Hard Beautiful series by CM Stunich. A rockstar romance where the girl ends up with the whole band? It sounded like my kind of thing.

I devoured the three books in that series in a weekend and went hunting for more. What I discovered was not a one-off wonder but a whole world of unique settings, strong females characters and harems of guys who worship them.

I joined groups on Facebook dedicated to discussing all things reverse harem, and discovered that the genre actually started in anime, manga, and otome games. In reverse harem anime, the girl has a group of guys who exist around her (and may or may not be in love with her). In the end, she has to choose one of them.

Some of the best reverse harem anime are Uta no Prince-sama!, Fruits Basket, and Ouran High School Host Club. Find some more recommendations on Reel Rundown.

Some women watching or reading reverse harem anime and manga got sick of the idea of the girl having to choose between all the guys. Too often you’d end up hating the guy she actually did choose, or wishing it was a different kind of story all-together. Guys in stories got to have harems of women who all share, so why couldn’t it work in reverse?

Some of those readers started writing their own stories where the female main character didn’t have to choose. This started reverse harem as a book genre, as well as the associated hashtag #whychoose.

Reverse harem readers are greedy – we want them all. All the guys, all the feels, all the sex, all the heartbreaks and heartthrobs. We love reverse harem in all its different facets – some of the books are aimed at a young adult audience, with teenage protagonists who might not even kiss until book six (CL Stone, B L Brunnemer). Others are hyper-steamy with the sexual tension and bedroom acrobatics turned up to 11 (CM Stunich, Tate James). Many reverse harem books feature some element of the paranormal, but there are many hot contemporary titles as well.

I’ve been devouring these books for months now, and when the flash of an idea for a reverse harem hit me, I couldn’t resist dropping other projects to work on it. The Castle of Earth and Embers was born, combining my love of British history and Celtic mythology with my love of lots of really hot guys and sassy female characters.

Reverse harem books are becoming more and more popular. I love this in part because it helps to normalise polyamory and different types of relationships. Many reverse harem books involve elements of bisexuality and homosexuality, and often tackle difficult issues as characters struggle to come to terms with being who they are. I love the diversity in the books and how they showcase something many of us might consider kinky or creepy as truly beautiful and life-affirming.

That’s reverse harem in a nutshell, and that’s why I’m writing it right now. It’s awesome and I love it, and I bet you will too. I’m so excited to bring you this new series, and I hope you enjoy it and will stick around for the second book, The Castle of Fire and Fable, which will be released in early May.

Get the down-low on when my next reverse harem book releases by joining my VIP mailing list or my Books That Bite Facebook group. There are free books, bonus scenes, and fun giveaways in it for you!

One Comment on “What is a reverse harem romance?

Felicity Banks
March 11, 2018 at 9:50 pm

That sounds so cool!


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